WHY LOVE IS HARD

 You know when I fell in love for the very first time I thought it would be magical, like in the movies or in the books.

Personally, I idealized Love but only when I started my first relationship I understood that Love and Relationships are two different things, that you can be in love with someone but it doesn't mean that it would be as magical as you thought.

In fact, love is not hard is something you feel inside your self so is much more personal, but relationships are hard people are hard to understand to make them feel and make them believe in your real Love for them.

while I'm writing this article I'm thinking how hard was for me and my fiancé to be in this relationship even though we love each other so much it was hard to believe in each other it was hard because of our long distance it was hard because of our differences! 

I remember always saying to my friends oh my god Love is hard I don't know if we can make it we broke up so many times that it become something regularly

and even didn't matter anymore because we have a lot of differences a lot of different dreams, jobs, and plans and it was always something that would it make harder and harder to be together.

we broke up for almost 1 year but still felt connected still stalk each other on social media, wrote to each other as soon as we found a reason to write to each other, and refused for one year to be with someone else, so one special day for my first birthday without him he decided to write and to congratulate for my 28th birthday, he said I tried if you would just say something I would know that you still a thing even a little bit for me if you don't then I know that you forgot and don't think about me, As always we felt connected with each other and that night talked a lot cried and decided to give a chance to each other so he booked a flight and come to me it felt like we never were apart like the time stopped the day that we broke up and we understood that our differences make us even a better couple we understood that Love is not hard when people accept each other as they are.!